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NPD

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

Cluster B. Dramatic / Emotional / Erratic · Table 8.2 [1]

Pervasive grandiosity, need for admiration, and lack of empathy; self-esteem dependent on external validation.

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Characteristics (Table 8.2) [1]

Triggering Event(s)Evaluation of self
Behavioral Style
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Arrogant, thin-skinned
  • Self-assured and pompous
Interpersonal Style
  • Requires excessive admiration
  • Lacks empathy
  • Envies or feels envied
  • Arrogant and haughty
  • Exploits others
Cognitive Style
  • Cognitive expansiveness and exaggeration
  • Takes liberties with facts
  • Impatient, persistent, and inflexible
Affective Style
  • Self-confident
  • Narcissistic rage
Temperament
  • Active and responsive
  • Special talents and early language development
Attachment StyleFearful and dismissing
Parental InjunctionGrew up charged with becoming extraordinary to satisfy a parent's needs.
Self-ViewConsiders the self exceptional and one of a kind, deserving of extraordinary privileges regardless of whether they have been earned.
World-ViewTreats the world as a spread laid out for the taking and assumes others owe them admiration and privilege, so expects and insists on special treatment.
Maladaptive Schemas
  • Entitlement
  • Defectiveness
  • Emotional deprivation
  • Insufficient self-control
  • Unrelenting standards
Optimal Diagnostic CriterionCarries an inflated, grandiose sense of their own importance.

DSM diagnostic criteria

Essential feature

A far-reaching pattern of grandiosity, in fantasy or in action, alongside a hunger for admiration and an absence of empathy, present from early adulthood.

Criteria, 5 or more of 9 criteria
  • An inflated sense of self-importance, overstating accomplishments and abilities.
  • Absorbed in daydreams of boundless success, power, brilliance, beauty, or perfect love.
  • Holds that they are so special they can be understood only by other high-status or exceptional people.
  • Craves a steady stream of admiration.
  • Assumes they are entitled to favorable treatment.
  • Uses others to serve their own ends.
  • Shows little empathy, unwilling to notice or share in others' feelings.
  • Frequently envies others or is convinced that others envy them.
  • Carries themselves with arrogance and a haughty attitude.
Key differentials
  • Antisocial PD (exploitation with criminality and impulsive aggression)
  • Histrionic PD (attention for approval rather than to confirm superiority)
  • Borderline PD (instability driven by abandonment rather than self-esteem)
  • Hypomania (episodic grandiosity)

Treatment

Goals
  • Build tolerance for ordinary self-esteem injuries without rage or collapse
  • Develop empathy and more mutual relationships
  • Address the depression/emptiness underlying the grandiose façade
Strategy

Balance empathic attunement to the vulnerable self with tactful confrontation of grandiosity and entitlement. Anticipate and contain narcissistic rage and devaluation of the therapist; treat ruptures as central therapeutic material rather than failures.

Modalities
  • Psychodynamic / transference-focused psychotherapy
  • Schema therapy
  • Cognitive therapy targeting entitlement and unrelenting standards
Interventions
  • Empathic mirroring of the vulnerable self before confronting grandiosity.
  • Tactful, well-timed confrontation of entitlement and exploitation.
  • Repair work after narcissistic injury and devaluation in the relationship.
  • Behavioral practice of perspective-taking and empathy.
Common obstacles
  • Devaluation of the therapist; narcissistic rage at perceived criticism
  • Treatment often sought only after an injury (job loss, divorce), then dropped
  • Difficulty acknowledging vulnerability or need
Prognosis

Guarded to fair; engagement and the management of ruptures are pivotal. Sustained work can soften entitlement and improve relationships.

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Graham: A 'misunderstanding' at the top, and a collapse underneath
47-year-old executive referred after a public demotion; alternately grandiose and, when probed, flooded with shame and rage.
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For training only. Diagnostic criteria are summarised, consult the full sources [1,2] for the complete text; see References. Not a substitute for supervised clinical assessment.